So, you got the golden invite to someone’s Thanksgiving table—congrats! Now, it's time to show up like the guest your host will remember (for the right reasons). Here’s a quick rundown on how to bring the good vibes, the right gifts, and just the right amount of help to the holiday table.
1. Don’t Arrive Early. Seriously.
Yes, we’re starting with this one because it's that important. Your host is probably balancing more dishes than the average restaurant kitchen down to the very last minute. Arriving early throws that timing off, so save them the panic attack and aim to get there right on time. If you get there ten minutes late, even better—they’ll thank you for it.
2. Bring a Thoughtful Host Gift
A Thanksgiving host usually goes all out, so show some gratitude with a gift they'll love. Our "For the Host" section at Bad Harvest is stocked with charming finds that can add warmth to any home. A few favorites:
- Beautiful Kitchen Towels: Trust us, they’re burning through these as they cook. A set of luxurious, rustic kitchen towels will remind them of your thoughtfulness long after Thanksgiving. Our Maurice Dish Towels are a superb option.
- Ceramic Serving Bowls: It’s likely their own serving pieces are all in use or they've scrambled to borrow from friends, so a stunning new bowl they can keep for themselves? Huge win.
- Specialty Olive Oil or Vinegar: A quality bottle of something deliciously rare can make any leftovers feel gourmet.
3. Wine Done Right
If you've decided to bring a bottle or two of wine, lean toward a versatile option that pairs well with all those classic Thanksgiving dishes. Think light reds (like Pinot Noir) or crisp whites (Chardonnay, unoaked if you can find it). Want to impress? Bring a bottle of Champagne or Cava—perfect for those pre-dinner nibbles.
And here’s a hot tip: If your gathering is going to exceed three or four people, bring two bottles of your selection so everyone really gets to enjoy it. And don't be put off if your host has the wine all planned, they'll definitely look forward to enjoying your selection later.
4. Offer to Help, But Don’t Be Offended If They Decline
Your host may have everything under control—or they may be hanging by a thread. Either way, a quick offer to help will always be appreciated. And if they say no, that’s your cue to stay out of the way (and out of the kitchen). If they do ask for a hand, do it graciously and without extra commentary—you're on Team Host now.
5. Embrace the Leftovers Game
A good guest knows that leftovers are a Thanksgiving treasure. If your host offers you some, graciously accept, and if they don’t, respect the silence. Sometimes hosts need that turkey sandwich the next day as much as they needed caffeine that morning.
6. Keep Your Exit (and Thanks) Simple and Sweet
After the meal, stick around for a bit of mingling, but know when it’s time to make your exit. A heartfelt “Thank you for an incredible meal” is all you need. And if you want to leave a lasting impression, send a quick text or card the next day with another round of thanks.
There you have it—pro-level Thanksgiving guest moves. With the right blend of charm, gratitude, and the perfect host gift, you’ll be the person they’re crossing their fingers to see again next year. Happy Thanksgiving from Bad Harvest!